Objavljeno 12.12.2019.

Otkrio što iskreno misli o postporođajnom tijelu svoje supruge

Hayley Garnett, majka troje djece na svom Instagram profilu 'th3littlestavenger' otkrila je pratiteljima što njezin suprug misli o njezinom postporođajnom tijelu.

Riječi koje je napisao njezin suprug:

'Hayley me zamolila da napišem nešto o njezinom tijelu nakon porođaja.

Mislio sam da će biti lako, a onda sam počeo razmišljati - o čemu uopće pisati?

Naravno, stvari izgledaju malo drugačije - ali se u velikoj većini ništa nije promijenilo.

Razlozi zbog kojih sam se zaljubio u nju nemaju nikakve veze s bilo kojim dijelom tijela zahvaćenim porođajem.

Još uvijek ima prekrasan osmijeh, odlučan um, privlačno tijelo i snažnu radnu etiku, zaljubio sam se u nju kao djevojku prije više od 15 godina.

Još uvijek ima isti smisao za humor.

Još uvijek lijepo miriše i ima lijep ukus.

Njezino tijelo nakon poroda djeluje pomalo drugačije, ali zašto bi to uopće bio faktor mog života.

Mekana jastučnica kože oko njezina trbuha držala je moja tri najbolja prijatelja 18 mjeseci.

Trbuh pokazuje snagu koja je bila potrebna da nosi težinu dviju prekrasnih djevojčica.

Ništa nije promijenilo ljubav prema supruzi.

Dobijem pohvale da sam 'sjajan suprug', ali to je glupost.

Dajem minimum od sebe time što volim svoju suprugu zbog toga što je.

Moja žena nije savršena i zato je volim.

Da je ona savršena, nitko od vas se ne bi mogao poistovjetiti s njom.

Muževima koji ne sudjeluju u podjeli poslova mijenjanja pelena, kuhanja, čišćenja i govorenja supruzi kako je lijepa - započnite tu igru.'

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Words written by my husband:⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Hayley asked me to write something about her postpartum body.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ I figured it’d be easy but then I started thinking—what is there to even write about?⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Sure, things look and feel slightly different--but in the grand scheme of things, nothing changed.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ The reasons I fell in love with her had nothing to do with any of the body parts affected by her postpartum.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ She still has the same beautiful smile, determined mind, banging body, and strong work ethic as the girl I fell in love with over 15 years ago.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ She still has the same sense of humor.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ She still smells great and tastes great too.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Her postpartum body does look and feel slightly different, but why should that be a factor in my life at all?⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ The soft pillowy skin around her belly button held my three best friends for 18 months.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ The marks show the strength it took to carry the weight of two beautiful girls that will be raised by this bad ass mom.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Nothing has changed or altered my love for my wife.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ I get praised for being a ‘great husband’, but that’s nonsense.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ I’m literally doing the bare minimum by loving my wife for who she is, “imperfections” and all. ⁣⁣⁣⁣ Imperfections make the world fun.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ If everything was Barbie doll perfect, wouldn’t we all get bored?⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ How else would we show what life has put us through?⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ So whether it’s regrettable tattoos, scars, surgeries, dumb facial hair, or a postpartum tummy, honestly...who gives a shit?⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Be good to each other. Learn from mistakes-yours and others. Help those in need and let’s stop dwelling on who looks like what.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ My wife isn’t perfect and that’s what makes me love her.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ That’s why you are all reading this. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ If she was perfect, not a one of you would be able to relate to her. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ And to the husbands out there that don’t do their fair share of diaper duty, cooking, cleaning, and telling your wife how beautiful she is—step up your game bro.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ You’re a team.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ So yeah, I was supposed to write about a belly.... but honestly, it affects me so little I rambled about everything else.

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