Objavljeno 26.09.2019.
Hayley Garnett je majka troje djece, dječaka i dvije blizanke, a na svom Instagram profilu često piše o stvarima koje muče mnoge žene koje su majke.
Ovo je jedna od njezinih poruka upućena svim majkama:
'Ako ste ikada stale pred ogledao i gledale ostatke svog tijela, žao mi je i vidim vas.
Ako ste ikada preskočile obrok ili dva ili tri kako bi se osjećale bolje, žao mi je i vidim vas.
Ako ste ikada osjetile paniku ili sram zbog broja na vagi, žao mi je i vidim vas.
Ako ste nekada bile u nemogućnosti vjerovati komplimentima koje dobijete, žao mi je i vidim vas.
Ako ste se ikada improvizirano tuširale samo kako bi mogle slobodno plakati, žao mi je i vidim vas.
Ako ste se ikada sramile jer se osjećate loše, a znate kako imate na mnogo čemu biti zahvale, žao mi je i vidim vas.
Ako ste ikada sabotirale dobre stvari jer smatrate kako ih ne zaslužujete, žao mi je i vidim vas.
Ako ste ikada dopustile da vam jedno negativno iskustvo uništi dan, žao mi je i vidim vas.
Ako ste ikada izbrisale objavu na društvenoj mreži jer nije dobila 'dovoljno' lajkova, žao mi je i vidim vas.
Ako ste se ikada oslanjale na druge kako biste se osjećale sretno, žao mi je i vidim vas.
Ako ste se ikada osjećale kao da ne posjedujete kvalitete odrasle osobe, a kamoli majke, žao mi je i vidim vas.
Ako ste se ikada pridržavale nemogućih standarda, žao mi je i vidim vas.
Ako ste ikad smatrale da je vaša objava na društvenoj mreži povezana s osobnom srećom, žao mi je i vidim vas.
Ako ste se ikada usporedile s nekim drugim na društvenoj mreži i osjećale neuspjeh, žao mi je i vidim vas.
Ako ste se ikada osjećale usamljeno u sobi punoj ljudi, žao mi je i vidim vas.
Ali zapamtite.
Veličina je samo broj.
Hrana vam nije neprijatelj.
Suze vas ne čine slabom.
Majčinstvo je je*eno teško.
Društveni mediji su nešto što trebate držati u ruci, a ne u srcu.
Niste same.
NE ZASLUŽUJETE se tako osjećati.
Niste slomljene.
Dovoljno ste dobre. Dovoljno ste USPJEŠNE.
Samo se trebate podsjetiti.'
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If you've ever stood in front of the mirror picking apart your body, I'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever skipped a meal or two or three due to feelings of guilt, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever felt panicked or ashamed by the number on the scale, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever been unable to BELIEVE in the compliments you receive, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever passed on buying something cute because you felt you couldn't "pull it off", i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever taken an impromptu shower just so you could cry freely, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever felt shame for feeling so down when you know that you have loads to be grateful for, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever sabotaged a good thing because you didn't feel deserving, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever “let” one minor negative experience ruin your day, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever deleted a post on social media because it didn't get "enough" likes, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever relied on validation from others to make you feel confident and happy, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever felt like you don't quite qualify as an adult, let alone a mother, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever held yourself to an impossible standard, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever felt that your post performance on social media is tied to your personal happiness, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever compared yourself to someone else on social media and felt like you came up short, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever felt alone in a room full of people, i'm sorry and i see you. But remember this. A size is just a number. Food is not your enemy. Tears don't make you weak. Motherhood is f*cking hard. Social media is something to hold in your hand and not in your heart You are not alone. You don't DESERVE to feel this way. You're not broken. You're not lacking. You are good enough. You are GREAT enough. You just need to *remember* it.
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